The Tedious Introduction

           Introductions are always said to be the most meaningful of interactions. “First impressions matter.”  “People remember the first impression and introduction. ” Why is there so much pressure when it comes to this simple greeting?  It's the most superficial of meetings. In my case, I say my name: “Nicole Gonzalez” and where I am from, “Mexico!” This is followed by something witty or funny just to release tension such as “...but my parents always tell me I look like a Russian... blonde hair isn't a tell-tale sign of a Mexican is it?” And I have to say this because you want people to think you are a “chill person” who anybody can hang out with because they have a sense of humor. Oh, social norms- aren't you just lovely. Eh... cough cough...
           After the most basic of statements that people can typically find in your Instagram bio or Facebook profile (even though nobody uses Facebook anyway), a conversation about hobbies or favorite activities comes up. What I always say is that I love horseback riding, mainly showjumping, since the age of seven. Then clueless eyes just stare at me, and the tension rises again.   “em yea...” I'll say “BOOKS!” Phew! Crisis avoided. My favorites would be the Legend trilogy and Game of Thrones. Typically I read dystopian series, but my dad pushes me towards non-fiction at times. “Variety is important,” which I respond with  “and so is actual entertainment. JUST KIDDING!” He usually gives me a  “really Nicky?” look and then I just laugh and leave. Hahaha. See what I just did there? Anecdotes! They can make or break an introduction! Anyway, that's my take on this tedious social interaction, and there are many other ways to do it. Introductions can be great or terrible, depends on the conversation. How did I do?